Project complete all books I have started.
I've finished 3 and this Deeper Dating book is # 4. This book is best served when you find an accountability partner to work through the book with you. However, I don't have an accountability partner at this time. Therefore, I'm my own accountability partner through this process.
An interesting concept from the book seems to be the reflection of someone who loves you reflecting back your worth. (In essence) and I have to say, this concept challenged me slightly.
However; relationships are often mirrors reflecting back at us. When you are alone, that particular mirror doesn't exist. It does seem like there are certain things to learn about ones self that you can only learn through intimate relationships.
Even after all of this reading, learning and wanting to be on my growing edge at all times...Here is the most simple question that I ask myself
"Would I date ME?"
And the answer is: Oh MY GOD YES!!!
I'm rather lovely if I do say so myself. :)
And when I don't feel that way about myself (because sometimes I don't) it indicates to me - it's time to take my love affair with myself UP a notch and I'm most happy to do that.