For Jung....The division was personally painful.
That’s the purity of a son’s heart.
That’s a part of many many son’s journeys with their father.
When you read this next paragraph, can you see it?
Can you feel IT?
Cause this is intense!!!!!!!
“Freud saw in the younger Jung the #potential heir #he #had been #seeking to #carry on #his "new science" of psychoanalysis and even named him the first head of Freud's newly founded International Psychoanalytic Association. Jung's #research and #personal #vision, however, made it #impossible #for #him to #bend to his #older #colleague's #doctrine, and a schism became inevitable. This division was personally #painful for #Jung, and it was to have #historic #repercussions #lasting #well #into the #modern #day.
It’s all right there!!!!
It’s woven into the thread and what gets woven gets stronger. We see this filtered into The Hero’s Journey by Joseph Campbell.
It’s right there!!! If you read this next paragraph and weave it into Jungs Tender heart feelings of love and loss...
I love you and I’m scared.
I’m scared because I love you and I know you want me to be just like you.
Choosing the fullness of my own life force -Feels like I’m living in betrayal and I might lose your love and affection.
Atonement with the father on the Hero’s Journey.
The Hero's Journey
It’s all right there. 👆🏼
These men are teaching us so much and providing us all with a road map we can all use to be able to lift something for our boys and our men.
I believe it would behoove us all
Atonement with the father. It isn’t blame the father or the son.
There is a bond there. One that is sacred within the male Psyche.
We’re living inside the thickness and the truth of this right now.
I work very deeply with fathers and I often eventually hear “I hated him” or “I hate him” or some version of that combined with “I prefer to be around women, I get along better with women. Women are easier for me.
It becomes clear to me Atonement with Dad, the process has not been completed. Therefore my recommendation is to join a man’s club or sports team or be a big brother because that will help you heal your disproportionate using of women to escape atonement with your own father.
A woman can not love a father wound away. She can only hold him as he does the work himself. But he doesn’t really have to do it himself there are other men at different stages of atonement all over the bridge
Just like there are plenty of sisters to hold our hand through, there are plenty of brothers to lift men through this atonement with tremendous dignity and respect for both father and son.
The right of passage.
Moms consistently reaching out to one another.
Please help me.
I don’t know how to handle or hold the weight of this inside my heart. My love and empathy systems are completely shot. He’s my son. He’s my lover. He’s my husband. He’s my boyfriend. He’s my Children’s father. He’s my Dad.
How can I help him understand.
How can I help him see.
Help. Me. I can’t. Get. Up.
So women gather around and say. I feel you. I see you. I love you and Yes you can get up because I have your back.
Hence why we are all seeing a lot of Goddess symbolisms all over the place.
Also why I am absolutely not on board with eradicating feminine and masculine as the “answer”
Because that skips over this whole piece of the now pie and gets incorrectly redirected toward women.
mending fences while building bridges as a workable, softer more kind humanitarian solution.
Taking what is and moving it where you want it to go.
We need all hands on deck here. Standing guard at various layers and levels.
You may want people to be where you are. You may claim where you are is the ultimate answer however people are where they are. Not where you want them to be.
Is anyone noticing that?
As far as Me being Me goes
Competitive with women men
What I'm actually saying is, I am not here to be your punching bag because some older male person in your life was violent with you. You need to heal that and stop using me and all women at large as a scapegoat
It's too heavy. When I said come to me full I didn't mean full of heaviness. I meant go do the things that make you happy so when you come to me your competitive nature has been well fed before your arrival because I'm not interested in competing with you. Go find a group of men who are all as hungry as you are and see how that goes. Maybe your fulfillment there is all that is needed.
This is not me who is being selfish. You can not expect me to be less than I am as a way for you to avoid your own soul work.
The weight is just too heavy.