Christina (According to the Urban Dictionary)
The coolest, cutest, nicest girl ever. With the best personality, also very quick witted and very smart. Everyone should get to meet her at least once.
Everyone loves Christina.
As it turned out, Michelle was on the hunt to discover why her parents named her Michelle, so she's been on the path of names, what they mean and how they originate. She was having the most fun in the Urban Dictionary...
I wanted to share that because these are the "now," experiences I am having as I am experiencing as I work on my triggers (shared in my last post)
Co-existence...I'm in joy as I cleanse my grid. For me...its the best way...
The feedback I get from those who read my blog....I receive unexpected messages such as this blow....
"Regarding judgmental people. It's my firm belief that unless someone walks in the same footsteps as another, they are not qualified to criticize another's journey in life. How can one comment on heartbreak, grief, and yes, even euphoria and accomplishments of another? It can't be done. So when someone offers unwanted or ignorant criticism, just think "up yours" inwardly and let it role off your back."
Which is so endearing to me. In my last blog I did use the language of "F....You" as I recalled something from years earlier that resurfaced for me after watching the documentary "The Mask You Are In." At the time, I was in a different place in my development
And I also get messages like this one below:
Love times four thousand twenty two hundred and seventy three.
And I also agree with this too:
I have had more than one conversation with more than one woman post-marriage (divorce or widowed) and/or post raising children and/or in mid-life or beyond. Some of us do not have grandchildren. We are in that "in between zone." Some of the women do.
We all seem to have one common theme. That is: The co-existence between being present with the capacity to be in reflection without bleeding out.
Story after story- we serve those we love because we love deeply. And sometimes we do so at the expense of our own health without even realizing it. When we do realize it - we handle it or it handles us.
As we connect with one another and share our stories and what's in our individual life time of love grids...we all seem to be cleansing our hearts to rejuvenate them as we go.
I love this as much as I love watching the younger women in my life experience their love stories as they are in development. I learn from them and they learn from me too. It's beautiful in this way. All of it. Love stories exist inside of friendships too, as they are developing. As we share our stories...we continue to cleanse and rejuvenate.
It's more like this:
I will end here and this will be part 1 of 2 parts....