Intelligent, Gorgeous, with a wickedly awesome personality. I like her a lot!
I love the reactions every single man has just being in her presence....
This may not be a surprise and call me old fashioned if you want to... yet, I've always preferred the 25 men seeking one woman vs the 25 women seeking one guy. It just feels better to my psyche. I think it's because watching 25 women cat fight over one guy disturbs my sense of sisterhood but watching 25 guys all trying to out do one another to grab the attention of one woman...tickles me a lot. They crack me up. I love the Vulnerability factor, the banter, the silliness.
And it seems clear to me some men are chosen from the producers for entertainment value rather than actually being men she could see herself with.
The 5 weirdest moments.
The doll speaking with a french accent.. I mean...that almost had me on the floor laughing. The WaaaBOOM guy...OY
I was hysterical laughing as I was thinking...one night at a cocktail party would be potentially funny and plenty of time. I just couldn't believe she picked him to stay. I usually think I have this great sense of humor...until I think about being in the same room with the waaaaboom guy for any length of time. Yet, she's got time...plenty of time....
You see all these men with their clever and weird ideas about standing out to make that first impression memorable. Which is so fun to me...and kuddos/bravo to those men who came up with the craziest things-and they were able to do that on T.V.
I can't even Hula in front of a few people without being a bundle of nerves.
Yet, that first impression probably lives more in sensation within a woman's body..... Maybe....
These are my final 4 choices
Eric 29 years old
Demario 30 years old
Jack 32 years old -Jack and a man named Josiah were my first two choices when the show started before they connected with her but then other connections flow as they flow and these women never do what I want them to do anyway. So it's just a fun game at this point and I reserve the right to change two of these out by Episode 3 (But no later)
In the previews to the season, they show Rachel with tears coming down her face as she expresses she just knows people are going to judge her for her decisions. Now, I don't know what that's about because it could be anything really. Sexual...you know because a free woman having sex with more than one man while dating is still somehow odd to people, even though it's pretty normal. Yet, because Rachel is a beautiful young black woman who has a diverse group of men to select from, she could be talking about race.
In another preview scene she asks one of the men "Have you ever brought home a black woman to meet your family?" Which is a totally legitimate question.
For me, that was both hysterical and a little "clue in," on the truth that race actually does matter to people. Hysterical because post this experience, when yet ANOTHER neighbor saw me with a white man, he went completely out of his way to tell me (over and over and over again) "I like this one a lot, you should stay with this one" and it seemed very clear to me, he liked him because he was white and I was white. That made him feel more comfortable, it had nothing to do with me, my desires, what I would want or even if I wanted to "stay," with anyone. (which I didn't and still don't at this point)
I didn't even know or develop any relationships with my neighbors yet. I had literally just been on the island a short time. I thought it was very odd, strange and a little wild that anyone would care who I was connecting with anyway. There was a lot of "Why do YOU care so much?" for me...
okay..no-I'm not kidding. That really is what I think. A little less you and a little more me.... It's a big vulnerability for many men, I get that but it also can get in the way of just connecting. It totally matters to them.
"Listen, if you're going to name my member , okay....you got to name it something hyper-masculine. Something like spike, butch, Krull the warrior king...but not princess sophia...."
WHY MEN ARE OBSESSED ACCORDING TO MINOT LITTLE:
6 reasons men obsess over their penises
So why are men so obsessed with the appearance of their penis? There are plenty of reasons…
#1 The alpha male. Penis size can easily be lined to a man’s confidence. In a lion’s pride, there is only one male.
#2 Societal woes. Apparently, women aren’t the only ones being body bashed in the media. In fact, you can guarantee that whether you’re male or female, you’ve probably received spam junk e-mails before, claiming they can make a small pecker ten times bigger with just one pill!
#3 Jealousy. Ladies, have you ever had a boyfriend who constantly asked about your ex’s penis size, girth, and talents? If so, then you already know how that conversation is super awkward, and yet hilarious at the same time! It’s no secret that if your man is asking about your ex’s sexual performance or the down and dirty details about his down yonder, these questions are likely stemming from personal insecurities.
#4 A giant penis – the ultimate pleasure? Just as women are taught that all men like giant knockers, men are under the assumption through jokes and female blogs that what women really want is the omega-cock: 8″ and up, and don’t slack on the girth! This couldn’t be farther from the truth.
5 Adolescent behavior. Is your lover well-endowed, but still sees a problem with his package? Consider this: words hurt, and they can potentially affect the way we view ourselves for the rest of our lives. So if your guy is overly-curious about penis size and how he measures up, he may have been taunted by a mean-spirited ex-girlfriend or teased about his genitals in the locker room at school.
#6 The porn illusion. It’s likely that your man grew up watching porn, and what does porn like to show off? Perfect bodies: large boobs, shaven genitals, bleached butts, and giant penises. It’s no wonder your man is going to start to feel a little self-conscious about what he’s got going on downstairs, when the porn industry has shown him that a giant penis is what’s going to make a woman scream.
It's more about the Puccini factor, not race or size of penis....
From the moment Rachel and Bryan saw each other, they were attracted. It was oozing between them. Then he did not hesitate in his desire. He just went for it and she responded exactly as a woman does... when she feels it too. It's that instinctive pulling...in the moment he wanted to devour her, he pulled her in and she was surprised but also led by wanting to be devoured by the guy who gave her the warm and fuzzy's.
That's awesome and how dating should feel. It should feel GOOD, WARM...FUZZY......she's experiencing this and there are dozens of other men waiting for her after that kiss. It's actually perfect. The spotlight isn't on him and just him. She's got all of these other men right there. She's not going home and marinating on him, just him, exclusively him. She doesn't have the time to do that cause..there are all of these other men.
To me, that is awesome.
Bryan has a leg up due to the Puccini factor...it's not something one can think about. It's something one feels. It's not something that lives in race...it's something else...